Sunday, September 14, 2014

 My Zone at the Monterrey Temple


Tools we used to chop down a tree - in service to a neighbor

Temple!‏ - September 11, 2014

So, like I said when I emailed you really fast on Monday, today we got to go to the temple again! Attached is a picture of my companion and I in the entrance. I almost have it down in Spanish! 

 Well, it has been the first week and a half of the new transfer. We are working hard, especially with a couple of young men, Alejandro and his friend David, who randomly showed up to church on Sunday without us even teaching him! He heard Michel, the Young man of the ward (Moderna is a ward, not a branch :) talk about how great it was to go with the missionaries, and now he wants to too! We told him that we have to teach him first so he can have something to say :) It has been hard to find him to teach him though, but he has the desire! 

Also, a week ago Thursday we went to help a member cut down a tree. With a Machete and a Butcher`s knife. Yep. It is all we could round up. They just make stuff work here in Mexico, even if it’s not the ideal :) Alejandro found us we were heading over to help, and offered his help. And he was a HUGE help. He is great for being so willing to help out. He not only waits for others to say hi to him or talk to him, but he tries to present himself and help in whatever way he can. (Or maybe life in Moderna is just boring ;P).He is progressing a ton and hopefully my comp and I can help keep up the excitement of these two young men! 

The Ward keeps on having problems. As in, the members all hold grudges of some sort against one another. It really makes it hard to help investigators feel comfortable in the church sometimes, as you don’t feel a lot of love amongst them.

What we learned from the visit from Elder Piper hopefully can help us out and know what to do. He opened up for questions, but instead of answering one by one, let us ask like ten questions, and then from the questions that we had, taught what he felt that we needed. It was cool. The majority of the questions had to do with changing the behavior of other people, such as ward leaders, investigators, etc. So he taught what we had to do. We have to start by making sure they understand the Doctrine (things that are always true, i.e., we are children of God, God has a body of Flesh and Bone, etc.) correctly. Once they understand the doctrine, they can understand the principles (faith, repentance, prayer, Word of Wisdom, etc.), and then they can apply those principles to their lives. Doctrine and principles never change, but the Application of them is different in each circumstance. He also taught us how to help the investigators apply these principles to their lives, which includes helping the investigators teach us the principle, so that the Holy Ghost testifies of their own words, and is the real teacher. He taught that we need to help them rely on God and the scriptures to answer their questions instead of always the missionaries. It is really interesting and I am excited to put it into practice. I don’t even know if what I wrote makes sense, but it is basically what I learned with the visit from Elder Piper. 

We also tried to directly teach the Apostasy and Restoration to our, oh so Catholic friend Blanca, and it got kind of heated. She declared that there was no mention of Joseph Smith in the Bible. That morning I had read in the Book of Mormon of the Isaiah chapters of the book of Mormon that prophecies of Joseph Smith, so I declared that it did, and tried to find the reference in her bible, but it didn't have the desired effect.... it talked about a voice as if from the dust and a sealed book, and I testified that it was the book of Mormon, but she didn't even want to consider it. I felt super.... passionate to try to convince her but her heart was closed. Even after the lesson, she invited us to eat cake! She just wants someone to talk to, I think, and isn't really interested in the message...we really need to just stop visiting her, but my comp hasn't wanted to. That was my reference to Bible Bashing in my last email :) 

Our investigator Martin is still drinking... with us he declares that he wants to change, he agrees with all the commandments, but still won’t stop! Maybe it doesn't help when we aren't united when teaching....my companion had a headache while we taught the Word of Wisdom lesson, and after I finished testifying of the Word of Wisdom, Elder Hernandez asked him if he would keep the law of Chastity. He corrected himself, and Martin said he would live The Word of Wisdom (and he said he would live the law of Chastity too, half joking), but it didn't help the teaching situation.
(That is the picture with the minions. It says Unity at the top, and the minion on the left is testifying of the Word of wisdom, and the minion on the middle asks if he will keep the law of Chastity :) It’s a statement on teaching with unity in a companionship :)

And a super spiritual Experience! When I logged on to send a quick email to let you know that I wouldn't write until today, I saw a message from Mandy. She said that she was struggling trying to find answers to her prayers and feeling the spirit and that she felt super lost, and even though I shouldn't have, I took some extra time to write her back. And I am glad that I did. I was able to share my short testimony of Heavenly Father, refer her to some scriptures and give her some counsel. Apparently, I ``literally saved her life`` for answering when I did. I know that the Heavenly Father is watching over us, that he gives us opportunities to bless the lives of others, and that his timing is perfect. 

Well yeah, that is my week pretty much. I’ll be able to write more on Monday, not too far away. 
It was great to hear about the camping trip and I LOVED the pictures. I was also super entertained to hear the Provo is finally winning football games. It’s nothing personal against Thomas though :) I can imagine it would have been really funny to have been with Karen during and after the game :) 
Hope you can have some success as well with the dove hunt! I actually have thought about it a few times, and wished I could go. I know I am not good at all, but it is great spending time with you (Dad) and Steve! 

Well, talk to you next week, 


Love ya lots!!!

Temple on Thursday - September 8, 2014

Hey, sorry, but this is a quick one. We had our P-day changed to Thursday (Temple) so I won’t really be able to write you until then. 

This week went really well, our friend Alejandro is progressing a ton, and even is going to seminary every now and then at 5:30 in the morning! I had an attempt at bible bashing with a fervent Catholic, half way cut down a tree with a machete and a kitchen knife, and taught a whole bunch of lessons :) 

We also have a visit from a general authority this Wednesday, Elder Pieper. More details to come :) All is well, and hope all is well at home! 

Love you! 

Elder Redford

Sunday, September 7, 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MEGAN!!!! !!11!!!!‏ - September 1, 2014

Hey Megan! 

I wanted to let you know that I did NOT forget about your birthday, but that I have been thinking about it all week :) 

I hope you have a great year as an 11 year old :) 

And I am sorry that I cannot give you anything for your Birthday this year :( 
(I would love to go see a movie or get a shake or something!) But I hope that a few pictures will do. 
One is from our minion friends and me wanting to wish you a happy birthday! 

The other, as I heard you really wanted a pet, is a little doggy that we found in the street yesterday. I am sure that if we gave him a bath and cut his hair, that you would love him to death! 

Always remember that I love and that I am thinking about you! It is great to hear about your missionary experiences too! Keep up the good work in school, at home, and finding and making good friends! 

Always remember that you really are a daughter of God and that our Heavenly Father and Older Brother Jesus Christ love you and want you to be happy too. 


I love you, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! 
Megan,  I heard you really wanted a pet for your birthday, this is a little doggy that we found in the street yesterday. I am sure that if we gave him a bath and cut his hair, that you would love him to death! 


                                                                  House that we painted

                              Room that we stayed in while waiting for our power to be turned back on.

Painting, No Power, and SUCCESS!!!‏ - September 1, 2014

Hey that is kinda cool that Donna has published a book. I am also very interested to see what it is all about. She sent me a poem too. She seems to be trying to keep herself busy :) 

And that is awesome that Daren is Ward Mission Leader! It really is a huge help to us missionaries. That it awesome, hope that he can have success in his awesome calling! 

And HAPPY BIRTHDAY MEGAN!!!!!!! 

Wow. There really is a lot that has happened here in this past week!  

On Tuesday we spent the afternoon painting another house! This time of a member who asked us for help. We invited an investigator and another youth to help us and it turned out great! The family bought us hamburgers afterwords :) The Member is Karla, who is like 20, who lives with her family. She and her Grandpa are members, but the rest of the family isn’t. When they invited us in the house, I sat down in a rocking chair, and noticed that the shelf behind me moved! I tried to slowly get up, because the base of the rocker was underneath the shelf, but it moved again, and I almost caused the statue of the Virgin Mary (her mom is catholic) to fall off and shatter into pieces! Luckily I caught her, and all that broke was a candlestick.... But afterwards we thought about how funny or ironic it was, and how easy it is to destroy Graven Images, A reminder of the power and stability of a living God! 

Wednesday morning just before we left, we noticed that the power had gone out, but expecting it to return soon, we left to work for the day. We had a Family Home Evening with a part member family with a lot of problems, and it turned out great. When we got back to the house, we still didn’t have power! After calling the owner and trying to figure out what happened, he told us that we hadn’t paid the power bill, which I had paid Saturday! Turns out that I paid the power bill of the neighbor instead. The owner, who also owns the apartment of the neighbor, said ´´well you guys paid´´, and had them pay our bill. That night and the next we slept in another room upstairs (that he rents out, but no one is currently living there) so that we could have light and we could plug in fans, because our house is really hot! 

The next day we still didn’t have power, so I bought ice to put in the freezer to keep the milk and other food cold. Finally we got it back on Friday! We found a great member to help us fellowship Martin, who has had a drinking problem, but who is doing much better. This member, Hermano Ibarra, helped us out in the lesson and helped us invite him to church. We have not had much faith in the members helping us out here, but this week we saw how great they can be. Friday there was a stake wide mutual that we invited an investigator to, Alejandro, who is 17. We ended up bringing him and two of his friends! We understood that it was going to be a soccer tournament, with a spiritual thought right before, but the spiritual thought turned out to be an hour program, first talking about the Word of Wisdom, and them about first aid. Alejandro and his friend stayed almost to the end, one of the friends leaving early. Even though the activity didn’t really turn out all that well, Alejandro was able to meet the few youth in the ward and it really helped him to feel comfortable, and also know where the chapel was to go to church on Sunday! 

This week in church was sooo much better. Martin showed up and was there the whole time, and Alejandro came late, but HE CAME! Michel, the only young man in the ward (and recent convert), invited him to seminary as well, and he went today at 5:30 in the morning! He is really getting involved, and it is great! This ward really needs more youth! What seems to be the young men in this ward consists of Michel, a recent convert, his friend who is an investigator Bryan, and now this Alejandro, also investigator :) Only one is actually member :) 

So with two investigators coming to church after a long time without any, I am feeling really good :) 
And by way of Transfers this week, my companion Elder Hernandez and I are both staying. This will be our third Transfer! I was totally expecting and ready for a change, but just like last time, our entire district is staying the same. I have accepted it. And really, it is a good thing, because I really need Elder Hernandez´s help with Alejandro, they are good friends :) 

Today while shopping a lady came up to me and starting speaking pretty good but broken English, and asked me where our chapel was. We told her, and ended up seeing her like three times in the trans course of shopping :) We also ran into a few less active members that we hadn’t met, and they invited us to come to their house. I am glad that we decided to go shopping today when we did! I am seeing Gods hand quite a bit this week :) 

So yeah, I think that that is the news from around here. We are seeing success and we are going after it. 

Thanks for the support from home! 


Love Elder Hayden Redford